I recently encountered a situation where a young man, who subsequently turned out to be a marginal Believer, deliberately took the virginity of a young woman and then equally deliberately put her away. This is the behaviour that Yah says He hates – see Malachi 2:26 ““For I hate putting away,” says Yah the Eternally Self-Existing {the LORD}, the Mighty One {God} of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with wrong and violence,” says Yah the Eternally Self-Existing of hosts. “Therefore keep watch on your spirit, so that you do not deal treacherously [with your wife].””
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Having taken the young woman’s virginity he sent here away, she begged him to take her back, bought him gifts and generally exhibited her love towards him – a love bond, a one-flesh bond and a virgins covenant are all formed immediately virginity is taken, see “2021.11.05 The Essence of my Message Regarding the Virgins Covenant” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/essence-of-message-re-virgins-covenant
In addition, the young woman was pregnant!
In desperation she rejected Father Yah and took abortion tablets and sleeping tablets in order to commit suicide.
The young man was indifferent, encouraged in his indifference by his father.
This despite the brother of the young man, who is a committed Believer begging him to take the young woman back.
In considering this situation it is important to take account of the terms of the Virgins Covenant, as presented on the webpage cited above:
MAN:
- lead your woman closer to Yah -- a fundamental principle is that the man should ALWAYS be manifestly closer to Yah than the woman else when she looks to her man she looks away from Yah – in this situation the woman was much closer to Yah.
- Love her even if she beats you, flogs you and nails you to a stake.
- treat her gently and tenderly.
- provide for her.
- make Love to her tenderly and skilfully.
- accept her the way she is when you Covenant with her and do NOT try and change her.
- comply with any specific terms you may have agreed BEFORE consummation (additional terms are NOT necessary) – the terms above apply UNLESS the parties contract OUT BEFORE consummation.
- break this Covenant and you will die – through Grace in this age this clause is mitigated till the Day of Judgment in most but NOT all cases – at which point, unless repented and made restitution a time in Hell will be appointed, see “2022.08.03 Believers in Hell for Unrepented Sin” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/believers-in-hell-for-unrepented-sin
Clearly, the man concerned is in breach of all the above and destined for severe judgment unless he repents and takes his wife back. If he DOES repent and she refused him, then Father MAY release him subject to specific requirements that he has made every possible attempt to make right with her.
To understand where he now finds himself consider the following:
He has brought a death curse upon himself by breaking Covenant – this may be mitigated to suffering, impotence, major accident, major illness or other judgment either in this life or held over to serve time in Hell on the Day of Judgment.
Her abortion, which is murder, is charged to his account, he will pay the price, either in this life or on the Day of Judgment.
Her attempted suicide is likewise charged to his account, as above.
If she goes off the rails and starts fornicating, as she has threatened, then EVERY time she has intercourse the judgment for adultery will come upon the man who put her away.
Depending on various factors these judgments may come almost immediately OR they may only accrue on the day of his Judgment at which point he will be sentenced to time in Hell for EVERY unrepented item – which, if she goes off the rails could be many years in torment in Hell.
The ONLY way he can mitigate the above is heartfelt repentance AND taking her as his legal wife for life.
To better understand what I am saying here read the article “2021.07.01 The Essence of my message concerning Judgement in THIS Life” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/essence-of-message-concerning-judgement-this-life
Where does she stand?
Depending on what she may have said and covenanted there may be factors operating against the woman but, on balance, in this situation, this seems unlikely.
She is entitled to pray prayers like “Father, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you to judge between me and my husband and I ask you to judge him severely and correct him harshly that he will do what is right towards me”.
She can and should pray for ALL ties – one-flesh, Demons, Soul Ties, etcetera to be cut off, see “2021.11.03 The Essence of my message re separation of Man and Woman {Divorce}” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/essence-of-message-separation-man-woman
She can also pray for the love bond to be sealed up and closed and should actively block it.
She can also choose to live a celibate life and ask Father to set her free from desire for a man and for Yah to be her husband and provide for her – note that there are SEVEN times more women than men in the body of true Believers so she is highly unlikely to find a suitable man – see “There are seven times as many believing women as men on earth today so most need to remain celibate and single” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/single-women-believers-7-x-men
Unbelievers
Note that if both were unbelievers there will only be consequences insofar as the various spiritual ties will still be formed but there is NO judgement because Yah is indifferent to Unbelievers, see “2023.04.08 The Almighty Creator, Yah, is INDIFFERENT to unbelievers” at https://www.ETI-Ministries.org/the-almighty-creator-yah-is-indifferent-to-unbelievers
If the one party is definitely a Believer and the other definitely an Unbeliever, then the Believer has sinned by joining themselves to an Unbeliever and should repent, ask Father for forgiveness and ask for Divorce. It is serious sin for a Believer to have sex with an Unbeliever.
Conclusion
Taking a woman’s virginity and then putting her away is one of the most severe sins a man can commit with massive consequences, be very careful what you do sexually. By the same token a virgin should be very careful about who she gives her virginity to.
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May Father bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and grant you His Peace
May Yah judge me severely and correct me harshly and show me the level of my present deception and how to correct it with regard to everything that I write and publish
James Robertson
Emissary and Spokesman of Yah
{Apostle and Prophet of the Almighty Creator}
24 June 2023